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Do you want your donors to stick around?

Connecticut River and Riverfront parks
Photo courtesy of Riverfront Recapture

Do you want your donors to stick around?

Donor retention continues (rightly) to be a hot topic. It risks being like the weather, though: everybody’s talking about it, but nobody’s doing anything about it.

Let me share an example from my past.

I thought about an organization I used to work for. Riverfront Recapture built and programs a series of parks along the Connecticut River in Hartford and East Hartford, CT. Even in the worst of the recession, we had an enviable 74% retention rate. So what the heck were we doing right?

Have the right donors

Most important, I think, were our donors. We attracted exactly the kind of people likely to be loyal. They were older. Very tied to the community. Civic-minded. These people loved the idea of parks. I often heard from donors who could no longer get out to enjoy the parks themselves. But they remembered how much they loved being outdoors and wanted to be sure new generations could do so. And so they continued to give.

Now, obviously, you can’t really pick your donors. They choose you. If you’re fortunate to appeal to the kind of people likely to be loyal, don’t waste that opportunity! And if your donors aren’t there yet, give them a reason to be loyal. Better yet, give them lots of reasons.

Strong community ties can help

The organization grew from the ground up in the community. People were excited by a big vision and bought into it. They had spread a wide net and the project appealed to people from all sectors of the community. Politicians, community activists, families, athletes, and business people. We celebrated 25th and 30th anniversaries while I was there. And all those years later, people were still committed to the vision.

So what if your community is a country or the world? You build it. You bring together different people interested in your cause – for a variety of reasons.

Trust matters

The Executive Director was not the founder, but he had been there a very long time. His name was publicly associated with the organization. And he knew everyone. That built trust. People knew who was taking care of their money.

Communication focused on your donors

The Executive Director was also a skilled communicator. As was the development staff (including me). Letters didn’t contain a lot of back-patting. We all put the focus on our donors. You’ll never go wrong giving your donors and other supporters the credit.

Thank people well and often

Thank you letters were hand-signed. The ED included short notes. This often meant my job was to nag – because he wanted to sign every single letter. It was always a balancing act between how long it would take and how much he could write.

I did add some donor-focused communications to our mix. Print newsletters focused on the donor. (They often raised more than appeals did.) Surveys to ask what donors thought. Thank you letters “just because”, not in response to a gift. Donors loved them all.

Recognize and celebrate loyal donors

Long-time donors – of any size – were prominently recognized in our annual reports. Donors wanted that designation. I’d get a call if I missed someone! We held thank you events just for them. They knew we were grateful for their loyalty and the responded with more. Are your giving groups all about dollars amounts? Do you have a loyalty group? If not, start one.

So bottom line? There’s no easy answer. It takes organization-wide commitment. It means truly focusing on donors. Measuring and valuing their loyalty. Communicating well. A consistent vision.

And gratitude. Lots of gratitude.

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  1. Michael J. Rosen, CFRE says

    November 25, 2014 at 8:15 pm

    Mary, your post this week is a very important reminder. Sadly, the donor retention rate in the US and Canada is on the decline. Unfortunately, it was never great to begin with. Small measures can have a massive impact on the lifetime value of donors. As a sector, we need to reverse the downward trend.

    Reply
    • Mary Cahalane says

      November 25, 2014 at 8:21 pm

      We do, indeed. Thanks, Michael!

      Reply
  2. Penny Harris says

    November 26, 2014 at 7:27 pm

    Retaining donors and stewardship is all about their gift. Donors choose to renew and it’s relationships that motivate renewal. Can we look at how we talk and the words we use?

    Reply
    • Mary Cahalane says

      November 26, 2014 at 7:37 pm

      That’s it, exactly! Do you feel connected to someone who only loves you for your money?

      Donors are the people who commit their funds and beliefs to change something in the world. That’s pretty wonderful. And if someone can’t summon that understanding, they’re probably in the wrong line of business.

      Reply
      • Penny Harris says

        November 26, 2014 at 8:09 pm

        I agree. Yet I believe we need new ways to support development professionals. What do you think?

        Reply
        • Mary Cahalane says

          November 26, 2014 at 8:13 pm

          Well, I agree, of course! But if an organization is really to value donors, it won’t begin and end with the development office. Therefore, those with the purse strings need to understand how important an investment in fundraising – and fundraising staff – is to the health of the entire organization. It feels all of a piece to me.

          It also takes some longer-term thinking across the organization. No churn, more focus on relationships over time. Sometimes you have to accept a shortfall from the current budget in order to build for the future.

          What do you think the answer is?

          Reply

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