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Do you want to really connect? Show, don’t just tell me.

Do you really want to connect? Show, don't tell me

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Yes, this is one more post about the importance of emotion in your fundraising. This time, let’s look at images, not words.

There is no faster way into our brains than an image.

When we read, our brains recognize images as words. We’re constantly translating. (And remember your donors aren’t going to work hard to understand you.)

Words are more difficult to take in than images. Images are instantly and easily read. People can remember more than 2500 images with at least 90 percent accuracy for days after initial exposure.

So, yes, pictures are powerful. But how to use them?

Lisa Sargent warns us against feel-good pictures.

Why? They’re not as motivating. She cites “emotional contagion” – sad images are catching. (Lisa also links to a post from Jeff Brooks with research reported in the AMA Journal of Marketing Research. The upshot? Sad faces raise more money. Read both these posts for lots of great detail and advice).

Resist the urge to show only happy pictures of your work. What you’re communicating is that the problem is solved and the donor is no longer needed. That’s not what you want to say, is it?

I used to drive colleagues crazy, reminding them that our photos needed “eyes and teeth” as Tom Ahern says.

Look for photos where your subject is looking directly into the camera. Eye-to-eye contact, even from the page or screen, is more effective.

boy poor afraid

Finally, some advice from Getty Images (they should know from images, right?). They’ve identified four factors that make an image powerful.

1. Connect: Authenticity is more important than perfection.

Think about this when you’re choosing your images. It’s more important that they be believable and feel real, even if the photo quality is a little lacking. Some grainy photos that might not even make it into your scrapbook have raised a lot of money. Because they feel real.

2. Connect: Cultural relevance

Here, Getty cites those Cheerios ads featuring a mixed-race family. Cheerios experienced quite a backlash. (So sad – it was 2014, folks!) But for a larger segment of their audience, the ads made a powerful statement. Know what moves your donors and prospective donors. Don’t be afraid to take a stand.

Helping hands
You don’t just see the clay – you FEEL the clay.

 3. Connect: Sensory currency

This one is interesting because the same idea works with words as well. Getty mentions the desire for human contact. That urge draws us to images that show hands-on activities and professions. Words or images that stimulate our tactile senses translate well.

4. Connect: Classic storytelling archetypes

Archetypes are those classic characters that we see in stories over and over again. Getty mentions one that’s particularly important in fundraising – the hero. Just remember who the hero is – your donor. This is where a positive photo can work – show people doing what you want your donor to do. Frame the heroic work you’re displaying as an invitation for your reader to join in.

Remember, your donor gets to play the hero.

The images you choose can make or break your communications. Look for images that do more than look pretty. You want an emotional connection. Trust your gut as you review your choices – what hits you immediately? What creates feelings? What tells a story?

A great image can help your donors understand the need in a way that words alone cannot. So choose good images and let them help you.

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  1. adriansalmon says

    August 12, 2014 at 5:46 pm

    Really good stuff Mary!

    Reply
    • Mary Cahalane says

      August 12, 2014 at 7:30 pm

      Thanks, Adrian!

      Reply

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